Click
Here
for more articles
| DATING TIPS and SECRETS |
| GuyGetsGirl.com
- Pickup, Dating And Seduction Guide |
| The
Art Of Approaching Women - . Dating &
Seduction Courses For Men |
| The
Woman Men Adore...and Never Want To Leave - How
To Captivate A Man, Make Him Fall In Love With You And Give You The World! |
| How
To Be A Lady Killer- Guys - A Breakthrough
Approach To Seduction. Written By A Woman |
| Veronica
Smith's GetInThePants System.- AWESOME GUIDE |
| FemaleOrgasm
Black Book.- Sex Tips On How To Give FemaleOrgasms! |
| How
To Become An Alpha Male. - Dating & Seduction
Success Guide For Men. |
| 300
Creative Dates - By Oprah - The Worlds Most
Romantic, Unique And Fun Dating Ideas - For Singles Or Married Couples. |
| Calling
Men - Know When And How To Call The Man In
Your Life. |
| The
Net2Bed Online Dating System.- How To Stand
Out Online To Get More Women From Your Screen To Your Bed In Less Time
With Less Money And Less Effort. New Audio Version! |
| Free
Dating Tips - Attract Women Now!!!! Hot, Hot
Product! Learn How To Meet, Seduce And Date Hot Women! |
| 12
Simple Rules. Love, Dating, Romance And Seduction
Guide For Men And Women. Find A Girlfriend Or Boyfriend |
| SureFire
Ways To Instant Dating Success! - The Net's
Best-Selling Seduction Guide |
| All
About Women -. Unique Seduction, Pickup And
Dating Guide. Seducing Women Is 10% Technique And 90% Attitude. |
| How
To Pick Up Sexy Chicks.- Meet Women For Dating,
Love, Romance, Relationships And Sex - Dating EBook(R) And Guide For Single
Men Seeking Beautiful Women. |
| 500
Secrets About Women. - What You Absolutely
Must Know About Your Women In Dating, Relationship, Romance, Marriage
Or Sex |
| SEX TIPS - Live and Learn |
|
|
|
Sex and the Single Mom |
by:
Teri Worten |
Single moms, more so than anyone, have to be exceedingly careful
about the type of man they select as life-long partners. No sensible
woman wants to be judged soley on her appearence or sex appeal,
right? Moreoever, who would even want a man mostly interested
in sex without a real commitment, right again? These questions
create an age-old conundrum. Exactly, how does one find a guy
who loves them and only wants what is best for them? Let's take
it up a notch. How do you resist those natural impulses to throw
caution to the wind and break down and have sex?
For starters. . .
Read between the lines.
A wise person once said, Words carry a little weight, but actions
truly reveal the entireity of a matter. When you meet a new guy,
be especially observant of the kinds of things he talks about.
Carefully listen to his conversation. Remember, you can usually
learn plenty about a person simply by listening to them. If the
conversation is laced with sexual innuendos, that is your "red
flag".
Where’s the fire...
Be leery of physical contact early in the relationship. Someone
who is overly "touchy" after knowing you for a short amount of
time might have less than honorable motives. Yes, some guys are
“touchy feely” with women. But think for a moment,
if you marry a man who can't keep his hands to himself, you are
asking for trouble!
Let get real, here. As single moms, it's only natural to enjoy
the attention of men, but don’t allow loneliness or insecurity
to propel you into a relationship that may bring pain later. You
are far too precious for that, single mom.
Take your time with the physical stuff. Approach the dating relationship
the same way you would with a platonic friend. Save the kissing
or hugging until you really know the guy.
We often give away far too much too soon in our interpersonal
encounters. Don't be the type woman that every guy in the neighborhood
knows what it’s like to kiss and squeeze. Even if he says
he loves you, remember that love waits. Love is patient, love
is kind and real love will never disrespect you. Slow down, enjoy
the progression of the new relationship. There's no fire, so hold
your horses!
God’s plan for you...
God has a plan and it's not about pointless denial. His plan is
first marriage and then sex after the legal, spiritual and emotional
commitment. When you create a list of rules for your kids, you
do so to protect them, right? Well, God is no different. He loves
you and wants to spare you unnecessary grief.
There is forgiveness....
If for whatever reason, you have engaged in a sexual relationship
outside of marriage understand that God still loves you. Our blunders
don't make Him love us any less. He desperately wants to put the
pieces of your life back together and make all things new again.
Living life "our way", guided by our emotions or feelings, always
brings disappointment and shame. However, God specializes in such
wounds. Allow Him to cleanse your pain and remove your guilt (read
1John 1:9). If you confess your sin, He WILL forgive it. He’s
promised. The next and most crucial step is for you to forgive
yourself.
Our children....
Our children rely on us to model appropriate moral standards.
Most wise moms advise their teens to abstain from sex before marriage.
We carefully explain to them the dangers of sex "now a days".
We share how abstinence protects us against sexually transmitted
diseases and unwanted pregnancies. Taking this into account, why
should we want anything different for ourselves? Our children
are growing up so fast. Our time with them is very precious. Let's
not taint it recovering from unecessary love-related heartbreaks.
Nothing is worse for children than to see their moms wounded,
hurt, bitter and dejected.
My mother recently told me, (relative to my health) 'a good mother
takes supreme care of herself for the sake of her children'. I
think the same applies to emotional health. Don’t run the
risk of giving your body and soul away only to be left with an
empty bed and broken heart. It really isn't worth it, single mom.
About the author:
Teri Worten is a freelance writer as well as the founder of
the online contemporary magazine for single moms and all women
- Gotta Be Me Girl.Com!
How To Tell
Which Guys Make Great Mates
|
|
