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Men Collect and Shelve Women Trophies: Author Marc Rudov Blasts Unilateral Pursuit in Article About The Golden Rule |
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Marc H. Rudov,
author of The Man’s No-Nonsense Guide to Women: How to Succeed
in Romance on Planet Earth (TM), has published a new article,
“The Golden Rule Dictates Your Sex Life,” that outlines the hazards
of men unilaterally pursuing women. Basically, the traditional
courting roles -- man as hunter and woman as trophy -- impose
an unhealthy imbalance that obviates a peer relationship, which
is the cornerstone of true mutual respect and a satisfying sex
life. Like it or not, relationships adhere to the “Golden Rule
of the Business World”: whoever has the gold makes the rules.
Los Gatos, CA (PRWEB) January 5, 2004 -- Marc H. Rudov, author
of The Man’s No-Nonsense Guide to Women: How to Succeed in Romance
on Planet Earth (TM) (ISBN 0-9745017-0-0), has published a new
article, “The Golden Rule Dictates Your Sex Life,” that outlines
the hazards of men unilaterally pursuing women. Basically, the
traditional courting roles -- man as hunter and woman as trophy
-- impose an unhealthy imbalance that obviates a peer relationship,
which is the cornerstone of true mutual respect and a satisfying
sex life. Like it or not, relationships adhere to the “Golden
Rule of the Business World”: whoever has the gold makes the rules.
In a stereotypical situation, a man, by default, leads and bankrolls
the courting process. Consequently, he feels ownership of the
process and the woman. Notwithstanding the obvious hazards of
such an arrangement, most romancers are resigned to it. The only
solution, which requires that both men and women reject years
of socialization, is mutual pursuit.
“Unilateral pursuit is an obsolete, destructive, demeaning practice
for both the pursuers and the pursued, making both parties unhappy,”
claims Rudov. “In the classical chase, man plays the aggressor
and bounty-seeker, and, by design, woman plays the target, prize,
conquest, and acquired asset. This power ritual made sense when
women could not vote, get credit, own property, or be president
of Brown University or CEO of Xerox. But, it sure as hell doesn’t
make sense in our modern world. So, the woman who insists on being
pursued, the passive trophy, must understand that she is yielding
power to the man, who becomes the one with the gold and, therefore,
the one who will and should set the rules. In professional sports,
after collecting one trophy, the athlete has but one mandate:
shelve it and win the next one. Men and women who play the unilateral-pursuit
game always seem to experience the same phenomenon,” explains
Author Rudov.
Continuing, Author Rudov admonishes women: “Quite simply: If you
don’t want to be treated like a trophy, don’t act like one. Be
proactive, contribute gold, and share control.” Rudov adds, “Men
and women should accept only peer-based, reciprocating relationships
that begin with mutual, simultaneous pursuit.”
Contrary to popular belief, Author Rudov maintains that men and
women are from the same planet but, unfortunately, have been socialized
differently and programmed for conflict. He counsels men that
the only way to succeed with women is to remove their layers of
socialized behavior and find women who have done, or are willing
to do, likewise.
About the Author
Marc H. Rudov, an investment banker and business consultant residing
in Silicon Valley, California, received his formal education in
engineering and business. He obtained his vast informal training
in relationships with women through over a decade in the dating
world after his divorce. In addition to his book, Mr. Rudov wrote
the article “Five Myths About Women.”
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